society & relationships

young love vs. the world

so like...

why is it that when you're young and in love the world comes down on you

all you seem to get is negative feedback

people say don't get too caught up

which i completely understand because you still have your whole life

but why discourage it?

some people do find true love under the age of 21

why do you get to pass judgement?

a girl who spends "too much" time with her boyfriend is frowned upon

but if a husband spends too little time with his wife then he gets the negative reactions

a husband and wife are supposed to come first to each other right?

well what i don't get is why people think that one title completely changes the dynamics of a relationship

don't get me wrong

marriage is a sacred beautiful union and one of the greatest types of relationships on earth

but

why is it that a husband and wife can put each other first but the same standard does not hold up for couples?

why is it that only after marriage is a significant other considered family?

i don't know about the world but anyone i love is family

family comes first does it not?

but not when it comes to a relationship?

i'm lost......

i can't make my boyfriend a priority?

what if we're committed but not married..

does that make a difference?

hmmm i don't know...just random thoughts

why does the world care so much anyway..

go cure cancer or something..