society & race

love.

so like...

i was talking with some classmates today and the subject of interracial couples came up.

and one of the girls said she just didn't understand how a man raised by a black woman or around black women could prefer anything else...

the other girl said she thought white girls only dated black guys for superficial reasons...

like i don't know about you but love..real..legit love is selfish

it doesn't care about race, or ridicule

hate or struggle

judgement or anything......

love cares about itself so if the love is real

or whether it's not

who cares?

as black people i would think we would be sick of the labels

sick of being identified by our race

being defined by it

constantly...

but yet we're always ready to critique and stereotype when it comes to race..

before i am american

before i am black

before i am female

i am human

isn't that most important?